Slut, according to urban lingo, is a female who sleeps around with guys, a female who is sexually promiscuous etc. We all know what it means but the question is - why do we look down upon them?
Once again evolution will provide us with the answer. An answer which sounds too simple to accept. The reason is, other females dislike a slut because she is competition to them. The slut is stealing partners from them and hence the hatred for her arises.
As far as males' emotions are concerned it is somewhat complicated. The one thing that comes to my mind is that a slut is basically an easy target for having sex. However, a male who has not slept with the slut will despise her because it is a sign of losing to other males who have slept with her. If others can sleep with this easy target and you cant then u feel threatened by these other males. A male who has slept with a slut...well...sleeping with someone results in some kind of attachment - it's natural. So obviously, if the slut sleeps with someone else after sleeping with you then obviously these attachments are damaged and result in mixed feelings. Another reason could also be that the slut is basically eliminating competition by sleeping with you and that is not how evolution programmed us. A male has to win the female's trust before entering into a relationship/sexual intercourse. So being able to sleep with the slut easily goes against our internal system.
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Why do we despise sluts?
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